a meaningful life
FAMILY: ACHIEVEMENTS, GROUND ZERO!
Who told you, you need "to be free" - Watch that he is not the one chaining you.
Mon.Jan.22.2024 - Ubochi Nkwo
I would rather clean my Son's shitty ass with my hand, that stand near a man coughing - That is the power of blood, to write all wrongs.
One of the most incredibly ridiculous concepts of the Western World Order is the notion that career is more important than family - how?
Life starts with family.
Your life, my life and now your quest for "A Meaningful Life". This is not just a Biological fact, it is also an Emotional and Spiritual fact, that cannot be Jettisoned by any new found "enlightenment", including nuisance logic that seeks to Detach you from this "base" reality of Life.
In the Bible, the foundation instructions to Adam, the prime ancestor of most Jewish, Hebrew and Arab peoples, by their God was to "Go forth, be fruitful and multiply". The African Renaissance Order in its Curation of African Orders of Worship, considers family "The principle foundation of human society". In my life as a person, my Wife and Children form the center most axis, even in bitting moment of discord which even I encounter.
What is life without family?
I am terribly confused as to why people buy into this lie of "Independent woman, free man" and "I want to build myself" that people all over the world have been sold hook, line, sinker and pole such that most of the "independent women" , end up on one pole or the other, serving the sexual pleasures of men for income, companionship and promotions without the great benefit of eggs that produce "yield".
Equally, many men now live supposedly full lives, that is filled with nights in clubs drinking with strangers, days in shops working for strangers, the In-betweens, still with strangers, spraying seed on sheets and inserted in condoms without the great and overriding joy of the word "Daddy" remitted for the right mouth and from eyes that stare in blind love not encouraged by the fleeting and momentary Ecstasy of waist seeds, wasted because of a lie, that the very women in which he spends his every vacuum moment, is empty and of no value to his pursuit of "A Meaningful Life".
DADDY
It's not a Woman's job, to take the beatings.
What is that?
My people the Igbo call it "Nna Anyi". Were this an Arrow of God Article, I would have delved into the peculiarities and spiritual Underpinnings of this igbo notion of "Our Father", expressed by both Wives and Children, that is now almost alien to our tongues.
In English, they call the man "Husband", similar to the concept of animal husbandry, it connots both control, management and care. The advocates of human Dissolution and disillusion focus on this "control" aspects to encourage the woman to loose the benefits of management and care. And who would care for that which he cannot manage? Or love that which he cannot control? As such Men also loose interest in such hard women, who do not have the meandering attraction of custody.
And women need Love, so do children but they also need structure - this is whether you like it or not. keep in mind that I do not write to impress you, I seek to help you live "A Meaningful Life" and I swear to the truth, that what you are doing without a man is everything but meaningful and what we men do without a woman, is waste life, while attempting to "Live our best lives".
MOMMY
It's not a Man's job, to do the cleaning.
Homes need Management, Organization and Stability. These are Territories best serviced by women and their emotions. Their general propensity to be over concerned allows the stability that is the best circumstances for the nurture of young ones.
those who attack the home, remind men of the demanding nature of women and their constant desire to program our affairs. They fail to remind the man that while as executive management he does not like to be managed. His home is in disarray while he adventures for the new, all the time, as is his nature and therefore that she is needed for a stable life.
It isn't only the Women that have the Privilege of great titles in Igboland, the Children call their mothers "Nne mu", my mother, a possessive term that deserves its own article, and I for one like to think about my Love, as "nne Mu", allows the softer sides of me to exist when she is around, a center for a wild bull, that allows rest after conquest.
We name "nneka", mother is supreme, because the foundation of a good home is a loving mother, the job of the Father being to provide Safety for the home she creates against the very threats to their Wombs, Hearts and Children that women now invite when Advised to abandon and divorce A grade men with minor flaws, for a life on the street - Wealth or not, in each class that you find yourself, a woman without a man is open season and her children collateral damage or often even distractions that must be Dealt with, by the evil she invites in to spend the nights.
were a Father called it home and the children blessings and her Wife, a "stranger" now commands, to get inside her pants and sees her very blessings, as traps to jump and pass.
CHILDREN
It's everyone's job to make one of these and fight to give it "A Meaningful Life", but you must start with "you", because you can't give what you don't have.
The human seeks to invent A.I and Robots while raising human animals that are confused about their "natural" sexuality, gender, spirituality and overall purpose in life. Children are yield. The fruits of any "successful" union whether a conscious covenant in marriage or the result of overzealous "twerking". They form a binding glue for the union of a man and woman and are a worthy Justification for our daily toil to change the world or save it, as many of us claim to be doing.
It is a shame that in the generation of "Green Peace" and other agendas that claim to want to save the world, the very same people who talk about saving the world are not interested in creating "the people" that will live in it. Yet they have more sex than married people, all for the spill and the trill - what madness?
Children are the reason for loins, the justification of the word "Nna" (Daddy), which is the best word to use when danger is near and the word "Nne" (Mommy), the best word when hunger breaks the play.
Those who invent new notions in an attempt to "balance", fail to recognize the impossibility of my breasts producing milk for my children no matter the sag or Thieves fearing my unarmed wife, no matter her size.
Those who try to change nature can never achieve "A Meaningful Life".
Submit, life will accept nothing less.
we were all children and meaning for our parents and no matter the volume of Mercedes in your garage, no day will beat 3 little words, "I love you", when it is coming from a little drop of joy in X or Y Chromosomes.
NATURE
E dey play, E dey show... lol
At the age of 9-13, most men and women encounter Puberty - fact. The end result is Ovulation and a Spirit of Adventure, all designed by nature to ensure its perpetuity.
Stranded in an Island with no history of Pornography or parents, a boy and a girl once grown must locate the solution to their scratches and the result will be a cry in 9 months - this does not require a school.
Somehow however, humans who are "smarter than nature" have convinced you to go against your nature and live to die alone - Madness!
Nobody opens a factory and equips it and then operates the machines for fun without any products, yet someone has convinced you to run your bodies factories and spill the products into plastic bags as feed to biological organism in septic pits. Are you okay?
When a man is hungry and cannot eat, he is never okay, when a man is cold and cannot find covers he is never okay, when a boy is now a man and cannot find a mate, he is not okay. When that man is man enough and looks around him and has no children to justified his status as a man he can pretend, he can cover with overnight stays at glorified pubs with poor lighting called Class, he can claim freedom while zipping around the world spending more time alone for a few seconds of freedom but at the end of the day, nature will continue to hammer him at every lonely moment (which is most of the time) with the vast emptiness of his fruitless Perambulations on earth.
When a woman is Queen of the world, its taste and glory fades within the 1st year once her nature reminds her that in all here "Queenship", she fails to be a Queen mother.
When a child is King, what use is the parties, if he cannot have his mother at the top of the Dining table singing his praises and reminding the world of how she believed in him, or his Father at the top of the world, gloating on the success of his lineage, even if, he didn't see it through as he should have.
What greater feeling is a celebration with Brothers and Sisters over the Sycophancy of strange crowd, that pile around your success, to eat the Fruits of a tree, they would must rather cut down and replant of "their own".
What then can beat the glory of being the Father and the Mother, and taking stock of the Yield of a lifetime they told you, you were wasting, which has now added up, to pride and Joy, in the years when you can no longer be your own Man/Woman.
ACHIEVEMENT
One of the greatest attractions to "David Adedeji Adeleke", alias Davido, is the "Adeleke", one of the few stable families in all of the Nigeria music industry, a plus, that we all admire.
At the heart of human life and "A Meaningful Life" is a life of achievement.
What achievement is greater than human beings who are the products of "your" meaningful life?
I live my own life to build a world for my children in which they will have "A Meaningful Life" in the "Land of their Fathers", this is the foundation of my work, how then can I listen to any "idiot" who suggests that I postpone, limit or delegate children in exchange for achievement.
What nonsense achievements can I have absent of the voice of Adaora (my Daughter), calling me Daddy when danger lurks or Anaazoeze (my Son calling for Daddy when the questions are harder for my wife or Nneoma (my Wife) jumping behind me when the knocks on the door seems strange.
This is what is threatened everyday, even in my own life by devilish advisories to men and women on ambition without the principle Yield of "A Meaningful Life". seeds for the man, eggs for the woman, a combined force that Yields the only hope of continuity and the sole justification for every other thing that men kill themselves to build.
The danger of fornication is not that it is a sin but that it confuses the owners of penis and virgina as to the actual use of the factory of life.
Like it or not, without seeds you are useless and cannot expect meaning in the vacuum of sexual nuisance, in a world which is confused as to whether the Sun should be revered while promoting a shift to solar panels.
No apologies to those who due to some natural deficiency cannot conceive. Were nature is the cause, it can never limit your access to "meaning", focus on what you have and can make of life.
where nature, Accidents or your errors of the past have already set limits you cannot control. It will always recompense with alternative choices that can fill any void of its creation. Nurture your Nieces and Nephews, run A motherless babies home, the void for family cannot be filled with business, unless the business has something to do with Men, Women and children.
Governance, Trade or charity, start with family all the same. Anything else, is nothing short of insane.
And oh yeah, I look forward to your criticisms, you little pestering terrorists of Moral piety, who Believe that the modern day Woman should be free to F**k, but won't consider the simple notion of what the F**k, F**k**g, was actually made for.
And to the Women who have been fooled, Fool You once, shame on them, stay Fooled, shame on you.
And to the Men who have been fooled, boooooo... Aren't you a little old, to be playing with oil and not own a Car?
AML - SERIES PROFILE
A MEANINGFUL LIFE
the "A MEANINGFUL LIFE" series is a non Religious, Non Enterprise look at life and meaning, written with the hope of getting you to a life of pure Joy, real Happiness and Satisfaction with your own life, regardless of your faith and economic profile.
It does not intend to preach, but where necessary it will. At the end, the desired result is that from this series you will pick up the tools to give your life greater meaning, and live a more satisfying existence.
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